IT DEPENDS ON THE PERSON. IF THEY HAVE A LOW SELF ESTEEM ABOUT THERE SELF WHEN A MAN OR WOMAN COMES ALONG THEY MAY FEEL THEY NEED TO BE LOVED BECAUSE OF LONELINESS. SOME MAY THINK SLEEPING WITH THAT PERSON RIGHT AWAY WILL KEEP THEM. IF THEY SAY NO THAT PERSON MAY GO TO THE NEXT PERSON. BUT A STRONG CONFIDENT BBW IS NOT HAVING THAT UNLESS THEY WANT TO.
As a man with much experience let me say that, men will approach any woman with 1 thing in mind. How am I gonna conquer this lady? Now some come on as "Mr. Nice Guy', others come at you like,"come get this now". The tactics are varied, but the bottom line is the same; panties. We can't help it, it's our nature. Some men won't agree with me, but I'm being straight up!!!!
The way you carry yourself (bbw or not) will depend on how men will approach you. You want men to respect you, respect self, it radiates outward. Body language means a lot. Be strong, confident, always aware of your surroundings. It's up to you to act as a woman, a lady, or a hoe. Whatever you choose to portray, men will respond in kind. This is "men 101" from years of being out there.